Perspective
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
yesterday went to Desmond's birthday party.
Happy 21st Birthday bro!
at last we had a full gathering.
Kor, Me, Ben, Quincey, Desmond, Jasber, Wilfred, Woon Fu, and some people i duno. hahas.
pretty stunning.
people have changed. hahas.
now Jasber is smoking too... and what's worse... he smokes alot...
even Desmond also. lol.. "what's the world coming to?" as said by Ben, a smoker himself. he further said that "almost everybody is smoking now la".
well, come to think of it. yeah. almost everyone is smoking. how sure can i be that i won't be one of them? hmm... oh well.
last night chatted with Maychin in msn till about 3.30am @.@
hahas.
woke up at about 10+ today. lols.
called Jee Ku to talk to him about some things, then he realised i was at home.
he ask me why, i told him im on my 1 week break.
he ask me to go over to his house and eat lunch.
hahas. so nice of him (:
he say for this whole week ask me go over.
i told him dunwan, cus i dunwan to trouble him.
he said nvm, and say its no trouble.
so yeap. just came home from his place. (:
seriously, its MINOR things like this that seriously touches your heart. it may not be something big, but the impact it has is a MAJOR one (:
thanks Jee Ku!
was thinking about a sentence in Sui Yue, aka The Days, whereby Zilong said to Baby, his younger brother : bu guan zuo shen me, dou yao zuo de zui hao. zhi yao ni jue de shi dui de, jiu gan gan qu zuo.
translated, it means : No matter what you do, give it your best shot. As long as you think its correct, then go ahead and do it by all means.
i was thinking about this.
yes, it makes absolute sense.
but what may seem right to you, does it seem right to another person?
it may not, cause different people are brought up differently, hence resulting in different thinkings.
if i were to apply that sentence to myself, i would think that its appropriate. i would believe in my own judgement, and i remain firm by it, though not blindly.. i would still take people's advice..
but there are certain things which cannot really gan gan qu zuo.
at least for my case, i wanna do something, besides the consequences, i gotta think... am i up to it? do i have what it takes? the calibre, the qualities?...
big question mark... shall blog again.
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